Are you ready to look at the most important relationship in your life – your relationship with yourself?

“Me, you and everything in between” is your personal guide to building a deep and conscious relationship. This book invites you to stop and notice how your past experiences, family patterns and emotional defence mechanisms are affecting you as a partner today. It’s not just a read – it’s also a practical tool for making sense of, developing and sustaining relationships.

By starting with an honest relationship audit with yourself, you can move step by step towards deeper understanding, safe connection and conscious love. You don’t need a perfect relationship, but a willingness to be present, to grow with your beloved and to love truly.

If you want a relationship that is rewarding, alive and deeply connected with your partner, this book is for you.

Feedback – Kiira Järv, “Wherever you focus your attention, energy will flow.”

This book contains a good measure of information and concrete suggestions to put this knowledge to work for you. All of the foregoing is logically linked to what follows, illustrated with real-life examples. An important added value is the opportunity to follow the author’s journey to a better version of himself and to mature love in a relationship.

Together with the author, you can learn from his or her noticing, realising, making connections, stumbling, learning, but above all, taking decisive courageous action. “It is action that shapes reality” is a recurring motif in this book, framing the whole journey of transformation.

By starting with small, concrete steps, you can build your own personal house of love and a rewarding relationship with your partner through consistent action.

As a family therapist, I value the fact that this book brings together all the important information about what factors in a person’s early development and in the actions and experiences of previous generations have shaped them to be the way they are, and how to put this knowledge to work for you. By applying this knowledge, everyone can make a “pit stop” in their life journey to tidy up themselves and their relationships, to prevent painful relationship crises and serious mental health problems.

Yes, this book can get the energy flowing.

Kiira Järv, family therapist and trainer, founder of the Kiira Järve Family Therapy Training Centre.

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